*Thanks to my friend Samantha Hogan for sharing her letter to her sister, Serena, on Day 15 of the Dear Gratitude project. Her letter reminds me to share my gratitude with the people I love TODAY.*
To my sister Serena:
I know I should have written you this letter long before you went to be with Jesus, but sometimes, a person doesn’t realize how thankful they are until it is too late to say so. So, today, I am writing this letter to tell you all of the things I should have told you before now.
First of all, not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. We definitely had our ups and downs in our relationship, but you taught me so much as my older sister. Growing up, I can remember you doing some of my chores because I just wouldn’t do them. You’d swear to me that you were going to tell mom on me when she got home, but I’m pretty sure you never did. I specifically remember sitting down in the hallway one time and refusing to empty the bathroom trash. You told me you’d had it and were telling on me, all the while, emptying the trash that I was in charge of doing. Never once did I get into trouble for that. Thank you, for saving my rear.
So many basketball games I had to cheer at from fifth grade to senior year. You weren’t always at mom and dads, but when you were, and it was ‘french braid’ day on the squad, you never complained to get up at 6:30 in the morning to braid my hair. I wonder now how I’d have ever gotten my hair done had you not been there. I’m sure I’d have gotten a demerit for sure! You even tried to teach me to do it myself. To this day, I still practice some, but can’t quite get it. Thank you for being patient enough to try and teach me.
On my wedding day, you were there. Sitting quietly and out of the way. I remember you were so excited to get to be there, and offered so many times to help. Thank you for showing up for me. I know I didn’t say it that day. I have a picture of us from that day that I will forever cherish.
Thank you for all the Christmas presents you worked feverishly to find for me. To make sure that even if it wasn’t much, it was just the perfect thing for us. I see now just how much love and heart went into the things you did for me. And I am so thankful for them.
Last, but certainly not least, thank you for the dozens of telephone calls you would make to me on my birthdays. So many times I would pick up the phone, thank you for the birthday wishes, and so many times I would ignore the calls, because I’d just talked to you an hour before. Oh I wish I could ‘ignore’ your calls now on my birthdays! But, time passes and God had other plans for you.
So, on this day, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for all those times you covered for me, for all the times you helped me out, for loving me when I probably didn’t deserve it, and for being my sister. You truly made my world a better place to live in.
I love you,